Your Relationship Map
A private, per-person view of the dynamics, patterns, and shared vision in your relationship. Yours alone to read.
Your Relationship Map is HeartWeave's picture of the relationship as seen from where you stand. It gathers the dynamics you keep returning to, the patterns that repeat, and the vision you hold for how things could be. It is built for you, and it is yours alone.
It is private, and it is yours
This is the most important thing to understand: your Map is private per member. It is drawn partly from your own private room, where you process things you may not be ready to say out loud. No one else in the space sees your Map. The other people have their own, drawn from their own vantage point, and you do not see theirs.
That separation is deliberate. It is what lets your Map be honest. Because it will never be shown to the other person, it can reflect what you actually feel, not a version tidied up for an audience. If you want to know what the shared, member-safe picture looks like instead, that is the Relationship State, and it is a different surface with a different job.
What it holds
Your Map pulls together the longitudinal view of the relationship from your side: the recurring dynamics, the patterns in how you and the other person move through tension and repair, the needs that come up, and the shared vision of where you both might be headed. It is less a snapshot and more a slowly developing portrait, one that fills in as HeartWeave has more of your real conversations to draw on.
How it is built
Your Map is refreshed during the nightly weaving. Overnight, HeartWeave takes the day's conversations and updates the Map to reflect what actually changed. On nights when nothing new was said, it stays as it was.
Like everything in HeartWeave, the Map compounds. In your first days it is thin, drawn from just a conversation or two. Give it a few weeks of real use and it becomes genuinely reflective of the relationship. If it feels sparse early on, that is expected, not broken.
If something looks wrong
The Map is a reading, not a verdict, and sometimes a reading is off. Today the Map is a read-only surface: there is no button to edit an entry directly. The way to correct it is the same way you would correct a person who misread you. Say so in conversation. Tell HeartWeave what is actually true. The next nightly weave folds that in, and the Map adjusts on evidence, the same way it formed the view in the first place.
That means a correction takes until the next overnight pass to show up rather than landing instantly. It is a deliberate design: the Map changes its mind the way a careful observer would, by taking in more of what you say over time.
For the shared picture everyone can see, read The shared Relationship State. For how private and shared stay separate, see The wall between private and shared.