Your private reflection room
A space that is yours alone: process freely, prepare for hard conversations, and know the other members never see it.
Every person in a HeartWeave space gets their own private reflection room. It is the first place most people spend time, and for good reason: it is yours alone. No one else in your space can read it, ever.
What it's for
Your private room is where you think before you speak. You can use it to:
- Untangle what you're actually feeling before you bring it to the other person
- Draft the hard thing you want to say, and try a few ways of saying it
- Vent, when venting is what you need, without it becoming part of the relationship
- Notice a pattern in yourself that you're not ready to talk about out loud yet
There's no wrong way to use it. Some days it's a place to prepare for a real conversation. Other days it's just a place to put down what you're carrying.
You're talking to an assistant, not to your person
In your private room you talk with an AI that is there for you specifically. It listens, reflects back what it hears, and can help you find words for something that's still fuzzy. It is not the Mediator from the shared space, and it is not the other member. It is your side of the room.
You can type, or you can speak instead of type and share photos or PDFs. Replies always come back as text.
The other members never see it
This is the part worth being precise about, because it is what makes the room usable. Nothing you write in your private room is shown to anyone else in your space. Not your words, not your drafts, not the fact that you were in there at all.
What your private conversations do inform is your own Relationship Map, a private picture of the relationship that only you can read. They do not get pasted into the shared space, and they are not handed to the other person's assistant. The boundary between private and shared is the thing HeartWeave is built around. If you want the exact rules, see the wall between private and shared.
How it gets wiser over time
Each night, HeartWeave quietly reviews the day's conversations and folds them into summaries, so the room remembers the arc of what you've been working through rather than starting cold each time. You can read more in nightly weaving.
Trying it before you pay
You can open a private room and start reflecting before you subscribe. It's a limited preview, enough to feel what the space is like. The full experience, including the shared space and the Mediator, comes with the plan. See the one plan, honestly.