Visions and Where do we stand

A vision is one person's picture of how they want this relationship to be. It is built in your private room, nobody sees it until you bring it, and when everyone has brought theirs, HeartWeave lays them side by side.

Five parts

In this order: How I want to feel here. What it looks like day to day. How we treat each other. What I can't bend on. What I'd love, and can bend on.

Drafting it

"Draft from what I've said", in the Vision section of My map, writes a draft from your own words only, each line backed by a quote checked in code. The guide in your private room can draft it too. What the draft cannot work out becomes a question the guide asks when it fits.

You mark each line That's it, Not quite or Not me. A rejected line never comes back in that shape. The map counts fullness in code: "3 of 5 parts filled", where a part is filled once it holds one line you marked or rewrote. After each overnight map run you get a fresh draft if you have vision lines.

Lay our visions side by side

In Our mirror, under Our visions, tap "Lay our visions side by side". The guide in the shared room may offer it too. Each member sees exactly what would cross: their marked lines, and their "What I need to be myself here" if they tick it. You can edit or drop any line, and nothing moves until you tap Bring it. If yours is thin, only you are told.

When every active member has brought theirs, one pass lays them out in four groups:

• Where you meet
• Where you differ, and both can live
• Where they collide, which means one person's can't-bend rules out something in another's, said as plain logic
• What only one of you named

Every item points at the lines it rests on. No score, no percentage, no verdict about the relationship. The result lands as a card in the thread and under Our visions in the mirror. The guide takes one item at a time and offers collisions first, and what you settle goes into the record.

Visions keep living

If you change your vision after bringing it, the others see "your name changed theirs since", and "Lay out again" redoes the layout. "Take mine back" removes your vision from the space and redacts the card rows that carried it. Summaries already written from that card keep what they said.

Where do we stand?

A button in Our mirror. Tapping it writes a visible line, "your name asked where things stand", and the guide answers in the shared conversation from the record: what is open and whether it has moved, each person's marks, what each brought about what they need, what has sat quiet, with dates.

Never what it means, never what to do, never stay or go. Each member can ask once every ten minutes.

What costs

Laying visions side by side needs paid access to the space. Your vision stays yours until you bring it, and you can take it back on any day.