Commitments, plans and check-ins
I will and we will, marking your own commitment Kept, Partly or Not yet, plans with a horizon and their review, the check-ins you set, and What I need to be myself here.
A commitment is something somebody will do. In HeartWeave every commitment has an owner, and only the owner can say how it went.
I will, we will
"I will" belongs to one person, and only that person confirms it. "We will" belongs to everyone, and everyone confirms. If the guide cannot tell whose a commitment is, it refuses to propose it and asks. A thing nobody owns becomes an open item instead. See Open items and bringing things across.
A commitment is confirmed, edited, declined and released by its owners only. Other members can see it and talk about it; they cannot change it.
Marks
An owner marks their own commitment Kept, Partly, Not yet, or in their own words. Marks are dated, append-only and visible to the space. Nobody marks anyone else's commitment, and the guide never marks one for you.
Check in with me
When you own a commitment you choose "Check in with me": Daily, Weekly, At the end, or Not at all. "At the end" is offered only inside a plan, where it is the default; outside a plan the default is none.
A due check-in lands as a card in your private room, inside your delivery hours, and the guide there asks how it went. A mark is written only when you answer plainly. These check-ins are yours; the guide's own check-ins and reminders are in Reminders and check-ins.
Plans
A plan is a set of commitments with a horizon, shown as a start and an end date. When the horizon passes, a plan review card lands at the bottom of the shared thread with each owner's marks, and the guide proposes what to keep, change or let go, as new entries the owners confirm.
Has this moved
Every entry in the record carries a plain line computed from its history, such as "moved 3 days ago" or "nothing since Oct 12". It is a date, not a judgment.
What I need to be myself here
One text per person per space, written in your private room or on My map, with its history kept. Nobody confirms it and nobody questions it. "Bring to our space" crosses the exact words; it shows in the shared room and Our mirror with no Confirm, Edit or Decline for anyone else, and you can take it back. If you rewrite it later, the new words stay private until you bring them; the map tells you what the space still shows.
From a session
When a session goes into the record, commitments spoken in it are proposed with the speaker as owner. A counselor's suggestion is never confirmable; you can "Take this on" as your own commitment, in your own words. See Sessions into the record.
Where to see them
Commitments and plans sit in the Record section of Our mirror, and the Where we stand section counts them. Your counselor, if you have one, sees commitments with each owner's marks. A check-in card arrives in your delivery hours and never at a strange hour.